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Week of 11 January 2021
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Working parents often prioritise their family’s needs over their own and find it difficult to take time for themselves. But its crucial they also look after their own well-being and not feel bad about it. Let’s take a Deep Dive. 

💪 Parents are expected to be selfless, but raising children can be both physically and mentally exhausting. What if showing yourself some love every now and then doesn’t make you a bad parent, but a better one? Research suggests that parents who satisfy their own needs in addition to those of their family make better caregivers, workers and leaders.  

😫 From a productivity standpoint, pushing aside your self-care needs such as getting enough sleep or having dinner with friends may suggest to those around you that you work hard, but not smart. This could take a toll on your professional image if people see you as someone who’s always tired and stressed out.

🧘 Finding success in one area of your life doesn’t always require you to compromise on another. Sometimes, it just takes having a few minutes of silence in the bathroom alone or a quick deep breathing workout to re-energise yourself to continue juggling work, parenting and everything else. 

QUOTABLE




 
“To be a good parent, you need to take care of yourself so that you can have the physical and emotional energy to take care of your family.”

Michelle Obama, former First Lady of the United States

BY THE NUMBERS 


 

 

75% A study found that 75 percent of parents wish they spent more time taking care of themselves.

17 Studies found that parents only have somewhere between 17 to 32 minutes of “me time” a day on average.

In Singapore, 4 out of 5 women have reported experiencing “mum guilt”.

39% Around 39 percent of men versus 32 percent of women say they consistently make time for self-care.

90% 90 percent of parenting is just thinking about when you can lie down again. (Note: not a scientifically proven statistic, but it does make a great title for a notebook.)

QUIZ


 
According to a 2018 study, what percentage of parents are at risk of experiencing parental burnout? 

A. 14 percent
B. 26 percent
C. 39 percent


Scroll to the bottom of the email for the answer.

DID YOU KNOW?



We all have a different idea of what constitutes as “self-care”. According to a study by Birchbox, the company behind the eponymous beauty box subscription service, mothers are more likely to associate self-care with looking after their bodies or pampering themselves, while fathers—and men in general—are more likely to link it to exercise and fitness.
  
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THE EDIT


 
5 Stories To Get You Up To Speed
 
  1. The Hidden Benefits Of Self-Care For Working Parents
    Fast Company

  2. Why Self-Care Is An Important Part Of Parenting, And How To Make Time For It
    The Washington Post
     
  3. Are You A Burnt-Out Parent? It's Just As Important To Look After Yourself
    The Straits Times
     
  4. Self-Care Strategies for Parents When You Have No Time for Yourself
    Healthline
     
  5. How Working Parents Can Support One Another
    Harvard Business Review

WATCH


 
No, Watching Netflix Isn't Self-Care

Watching Love Island or using your phone in bed won't better your physical or mental well-being. Getting your body moving and feeding it nourishing food will
 

GEN.T SPOTLIGHT


 
One Honouree To Know


Roshni Mahtani
Roshni founded Tickled Media, a digital media company that owns parenting content platforms such as theAsianparent, which is the largest portal of its kind in Southeast Asia, with 35 million monthly active users from 13 countries across Asia and Africa.
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FROM THE ARCHIVES


 

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ONE FINAL THING



Next-Level Parenting Tools
 
Inventors and developers, what if you designed a Grab-like ride service solely for driving tired, crying babies around town until they fall asleep? Or a voice assistant to help parents answer their toddler’s adorable but never-ending list of questions? For more inspiration, check out this list of parenting services that we wish existed.

NEXT TIME



How Technology Is Taking Over Our Entire Love Life

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The Deep Dive is taking a brief hiatus and will come back later this month with a shiny new look as a bi-weekly newsletter. Don't worry: it'll still be The Deep Dive, just with a bit of a 2021 makeover. 
 

That's it for this issue. Have a productive week!
 

The Deep Dive is a bi-weekly close-up look at an idea, issue or trend that’s shaping Asia’s future. This issue was written by Chong Seow Wei, with editing and production by Samantha Topp and Lee Williamson.

We’d love to know what you think of this issue, and future topics you’d like us to cover. Please send your comments to editor@generationt.asia. And if you missed it, don’t forget to check out last week’s Deep Dive, on The Truth About ESG Investing.

The answer to the quiz is A (14 percent).

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